No body part polarizes people quite like assholes.
For some, just the thought of anal touch triggers disgust and judgments about uncleanliness or ‘manliness’ or sexual orientation.
For many of my clients, however, light pressure and gently swirling strokes on the surface of a sensitive little rosebud provides profound relaxation. For others, nothing offers the same mind-blowing release as a deep, penetrative prostate massage.
For myself, I went years with no clue that the anus and her puckering lips, the rosebud, were powerful erogenous zones.
Most of us deny ourselves sensual anal pleasure, ignoring the fact that fully half of the pelvic nerve endings are located in the anus.
Which means that excluding your ass from sensual play is basically akin to deciding to throw a party and then telling your sexiest, most fun friend she is not invited.
This is fine, if you like mild, humdrum parties.
And if you're okay with missing out on half of your capacity of erotic fulfilment.
However, If you want to host a total blow-out of a sensual fiesta, you'd best get your ass to the party.
The stigma, taboo and the sensitivity of anal play can make it tricky to explore without a basic roadmap to rosebud bliss and, ideally, an experienced guide. If you’re curious about prostate or rosebud massage, consider these three tips: